Women love not only a smart man but responsible man. A smart man knows that hangovers happen when you drink to much and that alcohol severely dehydrates you. A responsible man knows when to stop drinking alcohol and start drinking water. There is no shame in putting down the Vodka/Water and asking the bar keep for just water. Your lady friend will thank you that night, and maybe the next morning because you were smart and you’re not hungover.
Facebook/Twitter are part of our lives. Accept it. Make your profile picture an actual picture of yourself. Nothing is more annoying than searching for someone and it’s a picture of their dog or something random.
Side note: Never make it a picture of your niece/nephew. You never know what people will think. Especially that cute girl/guy you met and told to friend you.
You look good.
Do not say this to a woman. Be descriptive. Substitute “good” for one of the words below:
Anything but “good”.
Full blast walking down the streets of NYC today.
Don’t we all.
Remember that when you are planning your next date. That is all a woman is looking for. Now, don’t confuse that with “lookin’ to get laid”. Even though you might think they are the same thing, and they might be, never assume that is what your date is looking for. No, she is looking for the kind of date she calls her friends about after…in a good way. She can get dinner any day of the week with anyone she wants. Drinks are lame. You know that one thing you always thought would be a great idea for a date but never did because you thought it wasn’t “right” for a first date? Yeah, do that. You can always ask for permission before hand if you are still a little unsure.
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To prevent yourself from texting while on a date, go out with someone you find to be interesting. If she can’t command your interest for a few hours, how is she going to hold your interest for years?
Sometimes you just can’t help it no matter how captivating someone is. It is just habit at this point to check your phone. Whether it be for the time, play with an app or check a text. We rely on our phone for a lot of things not just texting. Just because someone is checking their phone doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in what you have to say. Is it rude? Yes but this is the world we live in. We need practice to escape.
To prevent yourself from texting while on a date limit your texting with friends. What I mean is when you are with your friends, do not text. It will help you to focus on what is going on around you and pay attention to what is going on and limit your need to constantly check your phone. Your next date will appreciate it.
I locked down my second “go to” last night. But I think I will have to get rid of both of them and start over. The summer is approaching quickly, I need a girl who is fit enough to make me want to be more fit.
These are the people that will ditch you the moment you leave for someone who’s gotten caught having sex in the school bathroom. Don’t fret, just know that you have morals and you deserve someone who wants more than your baby makin’ parts.
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ahem *clearing throat* the dictionary defines morals as such:
of, pertaining to, or concerned with the principles or rules ofright conduct or the distinction between right and wrong
Here is some advice for my followers: don’t think for a second that your ideas of right and wrong are better than anyone else’s. If I want to have sex with a girl on the first date, that doesn’t make my roommate who waits 3 months any more moral than I.
Do what you do. Just remember that no one is immune to having their heart broken…no matter what your morals are.
I have always been of the mindset where you should lock down the second date while on the first one…if you want to of course. You opening usually happens right before you ask for the check. The night is coming to a close but it isn’t over yet. Work it into the conversation, something like “I am having a lot of fun”. Use present tense, don’t make it seem like you see this date ending ASAP (you could still have hours ahead of you, you never know). Gauge her reply to get your opening, you are looking for something along the lines of “yeah, I am having a lot of fun also” or “yeah this is a great time”.
At that point you want to respond with looking forward. Not to forward, pump the brakes a bit, but a couple of days in advance. What usually works for me is something like “Well, we should do it again sometime soon then.” or “[laugh] let’s plan for another good evening”. Make it seem like there is no choice (but obviously she has a choice). Take control of the situation. Things are new and {hopefully) exciting. Someone has to make the plans otherwise things will fizzle. You’re a man, fucking make decisions like one.